Friday, January 22, 2010

A great start on my career

Hello everyone it have been a great start on my career. First I just wont to say I through i could not do this by going back to school. I told my academic advising that I do not think that I cannot do this because it was so hard at first before I sign up for school I have not been to school for 30 years that was a very long time. And the reason way because I had my children at a very early ages and I had to make sure they was taking care of. But I did went back to school about three time never complete anything because something will always come up. Now my children is grow up , and years later my life start feeling like something was missing, So I start asking myself some question , you always taking care everyone else what you wont for yourself in life I told myself you always wont to go back to school. I have been sick for 6 years now I feel a lot better so now it is a good time to go back to school so I got online and I sign up for school. I remember when I had my first class I was so nervous, remember I had not been to school in 30 years thing are much different now then when I was going to school. Thing have change but I kept at it and I am so proud of myself because I been doing so good in school. I made it for the first year, and now this is my last year. I always told my children you can do anything if you put your mind to it and that just what I did. I just won't to say to you all it been so good having you all for classmate and good luck.

Friday, January 15, 2010

Teenages acting out

Why do some teenage act out, first I feel like I need to do this blog because I have a teenage grandchild who is acting out special in school and also at home. My son have two girls one is 16 years old and the other is 13 years old the one who is 16 years old is an A, 4.0 student and she is also a cheerleader she is a very good child she do not cause any problems at all. In the other hand the other one who is 13 years old is a bad problem, she was making good grade in school an A.40 to an D's and f's student she was playing basketball she got kick off the team. she just got suspended from school she say bad things to her mother but not her father which is my son. Her mother and father is not together anymore first I through that was the reason why she was acting out like this but we all found out that she is having sex and we all know that can cause you to have behavior problems. She come home with spotes on her neck I also had a talk with her to tell her about when I was a teenage I have made a mistake of loving someone and how I may a big mistake I got a baby and I do not won't that for her. I can remember when I was a teenage I through I knew everything know one could not tell me anything.I won,t to ask you a question why do some parents alway saying that just their hormones, and why when you are a teenages you take so many risk. I know I did when I was A teenage I have four children they was petty good children they all finsh school and went to college thank god for that. I thank that kids can get around other kids can cause a problems if that kid have a bad behavior. My son told me the talk I had with my grand children it did no good she kids have to learn the hard way. I am going to keep praying for her holping she will grow out of this behavior.

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Teen Pregnancy

First I just want you to let you know I was a teenage mother. i got pregnant at 15 years old. Yes it was not very smart, but I did take the responsibility for been a teenage parent. my boyfriend and I got marriage that was not a very good thing to do. But back in those day if you did not get marriage you was a bad person I remember when I first got pregnant my friend mothers stop them from been with me they say I was a bad person to be with. Back in the time I came up we could not go to day school we only could go to night school, so I complete school at night. Now they have high school learning center, for teen mother, where they can finsh high school these school also have daycare, someone to take care of your children while you are in class. You can also take time between classes to be with your child I also found out that center have parenting classes for you. when I first had my child they did not have a center to learn you how to be a parenting I had to learn that on my on but I was a good mother I have four children and i raise my children by myself and I did a good job they all finsh school , and college . I am going to ask you a question, while do some peoples think that it is just low-income children is having children it is also high-income children having children because their patient never around also. But it is so hard when you a teen mother, bringing up a baby it is so much hard work to do like changing baby dappies, getting up in the middle on the night, and bathing them.If I have to stare all over again I will waite until I finsh school. My mother was very strict back in theose days I came up know parents will not talk about sex to ther children my mother told me if you kiss a boy you will get pregnant. And I belived that for a very long time, and my mother also say you should not have sex until you get marriage. The best advice I can give a teenage just waite until you get you career.